I asked my friend, Tim to tell me about one of his worst days ever and here’s what he said.
He was in his last days of junior secondary school and like every other kid, frequently broke the rules. This time around though, he was breaking a big rule; climbing/ playing around with the tree.
Tim had a friend named Shola and Shola was pretty much Judas in a child’s body. As teenage boys whose idea of fun was dangerous fun and dangerous fun alone, Tim, tied Shola up on the tree, both of them giggling the whole time.. Tim then proceeded to pull Shola off the tree(i have no idea how this is supposed to be fun) and Shola landed quite heavily on the ground sustaining bruises here and there.
It gets better.
Shola began to cry relentlessly and threatened to report Tim to his parents(Tim’s parents) who also happened to be the proprietors of the school. Tim begged and begged but Shola would have none of it and ran straight to the staff room to tell on his “friend”.
Shola reported Tim to his dad and his dad got furious!
“How dare you Tim!!” his dad yelled repeatedly.
All that yelling resulted in some serious whooping on Tim’s bare ass… Bare body infact. He was made to lie on the floor for the rest of the day while his mates played on the field.
Towards the end of the day, he was released; he wore his clothes, wiped his eyes and joined his classmates.
It gets even better
Immediate they saw him, Tim’s classmates (except Shola) all ran towards him and began to comfort him telling him how wicked Shola was and how they all felt bad he had to get punished that way.
Tim couldn’t take it anymore. He burst into an embarrassing flood of tears and could only stop crying after a few hours.
Tim describes this day as one of his worst days ever.
Everyone has bad days.
Even the people who never miss a day of posting glam instagram pictures, sometimes post from a bathtub surrounded by their own tears.
Everyone has bad days.
Days when the stars don’t align and the universe seems to be against you.
I remember having a bad day too. In my case however, nothing happened.
Yup! That was the problem. Nothing happened.
It was a completely uneventful day, I couldn’t achieve anything I set out to achieve that day and at the end, I felt like a complete waste of space.
So if you tell me you had a bad day because something bad happened to you and if you tell me you had a bad day because nothing happened to you, I can relate to both and your feelings are very valid.
There are a couple of things I could recommend for when you’re having a bad day. Some of them, I’ve tried and others I have not. For example I find that reading poems makes my day a little better than it was. Experts also recommend calling an old friend or faking a smile.
But let’s be real.
There are bad days and there are bad days. And the bad days I’m writing about are those days where you even lack the conscious effort to make yourself feel better. Where a forced smile is too much of a burden and the idea of reading poetry makes you wanna puke.
Here’s an unpopular advice…. Or maybe it’s popular, let’s pretend it isn’t
Some days there’s absolutely nothing you can do but wait for the day to end and hope you have better luck the next day.
I know it doesn’t sound like a lot of good advice but it’s tested and trusted.
The one thing that makes a bad day better is having positive people around. People who say things like “Pele dear” or “If you need anything let me know”.
People who understand that you’re having a bad day and who don’t think you’re crazy when you say things like “I don’t know why I’m sad”. When you have these people around, you can go to bed at the end of a terrible day, knowing that when you wake, there’s a world of positivity waiting out there for you.
But sometimes you don’t. Sometimes you’re alone. Sometimes the people around don’t get you or are too busy with their own problems. Sometimes it’s just you and a horrible day. I get it.
Because right now, I’m having a terrible day and the one thing that’s keeping me going is the understanding that if I can survive today, I can survive a lot more days.
So wait for the day to end.
Go to bed.
Get some sleep.
You’re a survivor.
You deserve it!
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